All of us have ideas on what love should be, how it should feel, and how it should appear. Unfortunately, a lot of times, these concepts are just wrong and it is safe to say that movies as well as romantic books are to blame. Due to “fairy tale stories” as well as the media hype, among other things, you may not notice the real thing when it comes your way. It’s probably due to the grandiose visions of love that—all these years—were implanted in your mind. They confused you and me with false expectations that don’t translate to reality. Yes, sometimes tell tale signs he likes you more than a friend are just not real.
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In addition, it can also be the result of being burned out a myriad of times in the past, which translated to having walls set up that prevent you from receiving and giving love. Remember, at the end of the day, love is a pretty complicated stuff. A guy can easily say that he loves you and lie while at it. Simply put, love is beautiful, confusing, scary, and everything in between, but this does not mean that you can’t experience it in its finest form. The good news is you can, but first you need to know if a man likes you. Here are some of the ways.
1. Your happiness is genuinely important to him
If a man loves or like someone, his happiness is your happiness. In some ways, it’s a psychological sign that someone likes you. It’s like his mind is wired to your happiness. This is most true for men who make it a point to make his partner happy. But take note that you have to do your part and directly and/or indirectly tell him what makes you happy. If he keeps doing them, then it’s a clear-cut sign that he’s likes you. In line with this, he will avoid the stuff that make you unhappy; he will make an effort to do so.
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2. He makes it a point to bring you to his social gatherings
If this annoys you; don’t be. He just wants you be around, all the time. Take note that this is a beautiful thing because it means that he is totally committed to you and it’s a part of the undeniable signs that he likes you. It’s “giveaway” that he is seriously likes you.
3. He trusts you, big-time!
This means that he trusts you with all his heart and he doesn’t go through your belongings or speculate what you’re doing because as mentioned earlier, he trusts you with all his heart. He knows that is all about letting someone in completely and being the person that you can confide even your biggest secret. This, even if the rest of the world is simply overwhelming. On top of this, if he turns to you if he’s frustrated, sad, or whatever, then you can say that he likes you. This is because men, in general, only talk to women that they can trust.
4. He gives
Real love is not about taking; it’s about giving. This is the reason why parents typically love their children and not the other way around. Also, since he likes you, he wants to give everything he has. Bear in mind that this is not about material possessions, it’s about giving the best person that he can be and enhance your life in the process.
5. He pays attention to the details shows interest in everything you do
Paying attention to certain things is difficult, but to someone who like you, this is walk in the park. He knows your favorite color, your favorite food, and others. On top of these, he is sensitive to your feelings as well as moods. A man who remembers the tiniest details does it because he likes you and it makes him feel closer to you. To add, he asks how your day was, he knows the names of your friends, and so on. Again, all these are done wholeheartedly and are not pressured to do them.
6. He texts a lot
How to know if a guy likes you through texts? You ask. Well, he text a lot, even on the slightest pretense. For instance, he just had idea of the movie he wants to watch with you, a great food that you may want to try. Furthermore, he texts you first thing in the morning and last thing at night. Again, he texts a lot. Need I say more?
7. His body language says so
Yes, there are signs a guy likes you body language so pay attention to his movements whenever you’re around since they can give vital clues whether he likes you or otherwise. For example, does he turn to your direction, even if you’re with a huge group of people? Does he become touchy at times and try to play it off as simply innocent playfulness or a joke? Does he stand within close proximity from you no matter where you are and you catch him repeatedly looking at you? If the answer to all these questions is yes, then chances are he likes you a lot.
Summing up
There you have some of the most straightforward things that suggest a man likes you more than just a friend. With this, it is best to be mindful of them and who knows? You might find your Mr. Right one of these days if you push the right buttons and make the right moves. Yes, love can be a bit tricky and challenging, but bear in mind that with the right attitude and mindset, it can be a lot easier than originally thought. In relation to this, you may want to consider turning to psychics and asking for their opinion.
How about you? Do you have tips and pointers to hopeless romantics out there? Give us a shout in our comments section, we’d love to hear from you.